Wednesday, July 2, 2014

LifeSpan Psychology- Week Eight

Putting it all Together: Lifespan Development in Action

In Chapter 13, we are shown the answer to the question of "what's next?"  What comes next and how do we put all the information we have learned in previous chapters to good use.  We are shown how to put theories into practice, and given a look at the field of lifespan development.  Following this, we are given a look into current concerns and controversies, how history has informed change, and leadership opportunities.  Next, we see Professionalism in the field of lifespan development, advocacy in the field of lifespan development and then finally legislation and lifespan development. 

There are many people in this world that are working jobs that are stressful and/or dissatisfying, myself included.  We take on these jobs because of the money we make or because we have to take care of our families, not because we are passionate about them. 
On page 305 in our LifeSmart text it states that "knowledge of lifespan development is beneficial, if not required, in many fields.  People who possess an understnading of the physical, cognitive, and social interactions throughout the lifespan will have greater insight into what is developmentally appropriate in a variety of areas."  This is so true!  By having the knowledge we have gained from studying lifespan psychology we can become much better teachers, professionals and people in general.  Lifespan development can give us better insight into everyday obstacles and help us overcome them.  One obstacle I have been having lately has been with my current job.  I am an assistant teacher, and using knowledge gained in this course, I can recognize certain traits in coworkers and my manager and use that knowledge to effectively communicate with them.  Also on page 305, the text highlights that "specific coursework relating to psychology has been shown to make a difference in the career choices students make."  This too I agree with, and while I previously was not as set on the age group of students I would like to work with, I have now broadened the age range sue to some of the information presented in this and other psychology courses I have taken.

Further in the chapter, the text emphasizes the need for each of us to be an advocate for those who cannot be free to pursue their own dreams.  In high school and college I worked with Amnesty International and had the honor of giving a voice to those who could not raise their own to help themselves for a number of different reasons.  We all must strive to be an advocate, even in small ways.  

The final section on legislation and lifespan development was very interesting to me, as I am very interested and like to be involved in politics.  While there has been a good deal of legislation developed to aid in the protection of individuals' rights that have been introduced and passed in the last century, we still have much more to do.  By being advocated we can change policies for the greater good.  Currently, I am a big advocate for the rights of the LGBT community.  This group of people, while some progress has been made for them, are still so far behind in their rights!  Our children's children will look back on our behaviors towards these individuals and be as appalled as we are of our great grandparents' generation's attitudes towards African American individuals. 

In summary, this text has taught me much about lifespan psychology, and how to apply it to my everyday life in a number of ways.  By learning more about this field, I am better prepared for a career in teaching and has prepared me to be an agent of change as much as possible.


Sunday, June 29, 2014

LifeSpan Psychology- Week Seven

Dying and Spirituality

    This chapter, while understandably morbid, was quite thought provoking.  In chapter 12, we are introduced to the role of death in life, the role of grief, dealing with one's own death, suicide:the rejection of life, spirituality and a section based on a poem titled "If I Had My Life to Live Over."

I thought it very interesting to read about the "Take a Stand" case on page 283 about a 13 year old boy whose family wished to cease chemotherapy to treat his Hodgkin's lymphoma.  Who has the right to decide how a person dies?  As it states in the book, children do not yet have the ability to think rationally about death and dying.  That being said, even some adults cannot tolerate the thought of their own mortality.  The five stages of grief put forth by psychiatrist Elisabeth Kübler-Ross can help aid adults in the process of coming to terms with their own death, and the stages can also help family members and loved ones of the dying individual to cope. 
Further in the chapter, it highlights an Oregon law called the "Death with Dignity Act."  Personally, I support this law as long as it is carried out and followed correctly.  Growing up on a farm, you learn to understand that sometimes it is more humane to end the life of an animal that is suffering and will continue to suffer.  If one cannot enjoy their quality of life to its full extent we need to take into consideration what would truly be best for them.

  The poem written by Nadine Stair, "If I Had My Life to Live Over" was poignant and truly shows how towards the end of life, we look back and think of all the things we could or should have done.  However, in this piece written by an 82-year old, I also see all of the things that she loved to do and how she reflects upon them.  Ms. Stair shows those of us who are still in our young and middle adulthood that we should life our lives to the fullest every single day, to take more chances and to truly live and be a part of our lives so that in the end, we have no regrets.

Tuesday, June 24, 2014

LifeSpan Psychology- Week Six

Early and Middle Adulthood

    Chapter 9 describes the initiation into adulthood, physical and cognitive developments that take place, gender and sexuality, social development, marriage and the family and patterns of work that take place in early adulthood.  This stage of life typically is more marked by social and cultural experiences, as opposed to the developmental changes that take place in adolescence.  In general, the ages during when one goes through early adulthood are during high school through college.  During this time, one comes into their identity and starts to become who they are going to be for the rest of their lives.  While many of the topics in this chapter were interesting, I found the section on Marriage and the Family to be of particular interest.  On page 221 it states "Unlike the early years of the 21st century, when marriage was viewed as the final step in adult development, young adults who choose to marry in the early 21st century view that step as the beginning of their development together and as individuals in a long term relationship.  The goal is not simply to achieve a marriage, but is also to maintain satisfaction outside the marriage." I find this statement interesting.  Are the authors saying that young adults nowadays get married not because they want to take that next step, but simply want to be comfortable in their lives without the pressures put forth by society?  For example, before we were married my husband and I had dated for nearly 8 years.  I cannot tell you how many times we were asked "oh when will it be your turn down the aisle?"  I admit, this question was bothersome and was nice not to have to keep answering once we were wed, however we wouldn't have gotten married just to remain comfortable without all the questioning!  The entire section on marriage and family was very compelling, as it was interesting to see the changing trends in marriage and families in America today.

     In Chapter 10, the book goes over what takes place during middle adulthood through the physical, social and cognitive developments, through marriage and family, patterns of work and ends with coping with stress.  Personally I noticed many of the changes and developments that were described as having happened or that were happening to my parents and some of my other family members and friends.  Levinson's Seasons of Life was also very interesting, and the developments and questions that that were found in the findings were compelling to read.  However, as in chapter 9, I found the section on Marriage and Family to be the most appealing to me.  It was interesting to read that "middle age is often a time when husbands and wives reappraise their marriage" ( pg 247).  This week my parents will be celebrating 40 years of marriage, and they will both be 60 years of age.  When I discuss this with friends, they marvel at how they have "stayed together so long."  My siblings and I have a hard time understanding this.  We were raised to believe that when we get married, it is for life.  Our partner should be our friend, confidant, and lover.  Just because the children have left the nest does not mean that the parents can abandon the nest.  My parents have been "empty nesters" for ten years and they have only grown closer.  I once asked my mom how they still seemed to be so in love and she simply answered "because we are.  We have a commitment to each other first, and to you kids second.  Before you kids, there was just us.  your father is the best man and father and I can't imagine not being with him."  I thought it was so beautiful. Being farmers and small business owners I could see how the constant stress of their jobs coupled with raising us kids could have made them drift apart over the years.  However when all of us kids moved out, rather than seeing what wasn't there anymore, my parents looked at what was still there and grew closer to one another.  I use my parents as an example of how to have a good marriage, and strive to have a relationship with my husband like they have.

Thursday, June 12, 2014

LifeSpan Psychology- Week Five

Adolescence

Adolescence is a tough time for everyone.  Not only is it a turbulent time for the teen that is going through this stage in life, but also for the parents and caretakers of them.  At this time in their life, adolescents believe that they are adults, when adults know that is not the case at all.  Chapter 8 goes through when adolescence begins, as well as the physical and cognitive developments that occur during this time.  Following this, we are introduced to identity issues, social development, sexual identity and mental heal issues that are associated with this stage of life.
As outsiders, it is difficult for us to commiserate with teens going through this time of their life because most of it is hormonal and internal.  One of the things that I found really interesting in this chapter was that the average age of menarche for girls has been decreasing.  On page 189, the text says that "in the United States, in the late 18th and 19th centuries, the average age of menarche was 17.  Today the average age of menarche is 12.5."  Along with this, the text highlights several reasons that this could be happening.  The most compelling theory to me was that by Ellis and associates (1999) indicating that family relationships are associated with starting puberty later, especially if a father is present in the home.  Generally, it is believed that females who have not had a father figure or a good relationship with their father when they are growing up tend to me more promiscuous.  It would be interesting to see if the data would correlate between an absent father figure, early menarche and sexual promiscuity. 
Throughout this chapter it was interesting to learn just how many different behaviors begin and that come about in adolescence are effected by family interactions.  I firmly believe that every child deserves a loving home life, and seeing how much having one can effect a child through adolescence and even carry on to adulthood strengthens this belief.

Friday, June 6, 2014

LifeSpan Psychology- Week Four

Early and Middle Childhood

For this week, our reading was on Chapters 6&7 of our LifeSmart text. 
Chapter 6 deals with early childhood, it's physical and motor development and cognitive development, as well as early childhood education and different developments that happen during this time period.  Chapter 7 also deals with physical and cognitive development, then goes on to highlight critical thinking and problem solving, the changing sense of self, social development and stress in middle childhood.  As with my other blog postings, I will highlight on areas from each chapter that I found of particular interest.

In this text, early childhood is defined as between 2-6 years, and as anyone who has experience with children of this age, there are quite a lot of changes and differences in those four years! As their minds and motor skills begin to develop the number activities (and length of time they can do them) changes greatly from when they were in infancy.  Watching my nieces interact with one another (ages 3, 2 1/2, 2 and 20 mos) you can really see the changes taking place.  For example, page 133 discussed Piaget's preoperational period, saying that "the great accomplishment of the preoperational period is a growing ability to represent, which is how we record or express information."  With the younger nieces, they are just beginning to understand and play imitative and symbolic games while the two older girls have been in love with their doctor kit and grocery cart for some time. 
Later in the chapter they discuss early childhood education.  As someone who works with preschool-aged children, I really believe in these programs.  I have been classrooms based on different approaches, and I believe that head start, constructivist and Reggio Emilia approaches are the most beneficial.  Children in this age group need to be engaged on different levels, and trying to have them memorize names, places and facts at this age is not as beneficial to them.  Having a learning environment with structure and interaction is very helpful for them and children at this age (in my experience) tend to retain information more readily when they believe they have helped "discover" it.  I personally am not as big of a fan of the Montessori approach to learning, as I believe it can leave out some key learning techniques that could be of more value. 

Chapter 7 was on the middle childhood, from about 6-11 years of age.  Children have continued to further develop their coordination in their motor skills and can now accomplish such tasks as being able to dress themselves and tie their shoes, and their sense of responsibility is beginning to grow.  This chapter describes how children continue to develop physically and cognitively, and describes Gardner and multiple intelligences.  This really struck me as being brilliant.  I agree with the information on page 163 referencing his eight equal intelligences.  These can have such a great impact in the classroom.  This theory suggests that children develop and succeed according to their abilities and inclinations, rather than saying they are either smart/good or not.  As educators we need to acknowledge that all children are different.  One child may be extremely gifted in mathematics and ace every assessment, while another child does not have a different inclination and, consequently will not do well on the assessments.  Just because the child does not do well on an exam does not adequately show that they do or do not understand the concepts being presented.  As educators we should strive to keep in mind that a test school does not show the character, complete knowledge or all that a student is capable of.


Friday, May 30, 2014

LifeSpan Psychology- Week Three

Pregnancy, Prenatal Development, Birth, Newborn Child and Infancy

In this weeks reading from our LifeSmart text,  Chapter 3 focused on the pregnancy and prenatal development. In the beginning, it discussed the biological basis of development and how scientifically we come to be.  From here, we are shown the different complications and disorders that can arise during this time. Personally, as someone that will be looking to start a family in the next few years, I found this section to be quite unnerving.  So many things can go wrong!  After this, it is back to high school health class and we are shown the fertilization process.  Not much new information there.  Following this, the chapter goes on to describe that there are 3 stages of prenatal development: germinal, embryonic, and fetal. The germinal period is the time when the fertilized egg passes through the fallopian tube.  The embryonic period is the time of rapid development and great sensitivity.  The fetal period is when the fetus prepares itself for life outside of the womb.  The rest of the chapter focuses primarily on how different things can harm the fetus and shows how great the need is to take certain precautions (especially/mainly by the mother) when a fetus is developing.  Again, as a woman who is thinking of starting a family in the near future, this section set off my worry wart and made me incredibly uneasy as to all the things that could go wrong.  However, this chapter also showed me just what a miracle it is to become pregnant and how amazing it is that a human being can develop our of just one tiny little zygote. 

Next, we ready Chapter 4.  This chapter focuses mainly on the birthing process and the first characteristics exemplified by neonates.  This section (combined with the last few minutes of the Nova movie we watched this week) terrified me!  My sister is due to have her baby in a few weeks and I cannot fathom what she is going to go through-willingly!-for a second time. Thank goodness for modern advancement of birthing techniques!  Mothers and babies now have much better pre- and post-natal care than ever.  When I was born I was just over six weeks early.  If it wasn't for the technology available nearly 30 years ago I would not be here, and quite possibly my mother may not have been as well. 

Our final chapter of the week, Chapter 5, dealt with infancy and the different was that an infant develops during this stage. Having many nieces and nephews, as well as from working with infants it is truly amazing to watch the different physical, perceptual and cognitive developments that take place- and so quickly!- during their infancy.  The chapter goes through the different accomplishments that infants achieve during this time, as well as how they acquire information about the world around them. The section of this chapter that I found of particular interest though, was on the social and emotional development during this time.  On page 119 it states: "during infancy, emotions generate adaptive functions that help to define the meaning of a child's experiences." In other words, our emotions and emotional development help us to process and behave during certain situations.  When we are infants we are not only setting up our physical and cognitive future selves, we are also starting to develop our emotions and our future emotional responses.
Following this the chapter discussed attachment.  At my job, many children are still in the securely attached stage and exhibit a lot of distress at being separated from their parents and/or caregivers. 
Finally, the section on temperament really hit the nail on the head when it stated "Infants instantly tune in to their environment.  They give clues to their personalities so that mother's and father's responses to their child's signals must be appropriate for that child; that is, greater parental sensitivity produces more responsive infants." (pg. 124) I completely agree!  Each infant and each person for that matter is different, and must be treated as such.  My cousin Erika has fraternal twins, Caden and Brock.  While they are the same age and look very similar, they are very different.  Caden is more cuddly and prone to smiling, whereas Brock is more reserved.  At first Erika's husband found it frustrating that Brock did not like to be held and cuddled, he grew to understand that while they may be nearly the same boys, they each have differences and are each unique and wonderful.  Not holding one child to anothers standards is something that even as adults dealing with one another we need to properly learn.

Friday, May 23, 2014

LifeSpan Psychology- Week Two

Theories of Development

For our second week of class, we read Chapter Two in our LifeSmart text.  This reading was basically an overview of several different important psychologists and their specific theories regarding Lifespan Development. In my previous courses here at Trinity I have gone over many of these theories and in doing so again, I have really found which theories I find the most interesting.

Freud's psychoanalytic theory, the theory of the development of personality with an emphasis on the subconscious is very interesting to me, as are his stages of development.  Freud's stages of development include: Oral (0-1.5 yrs old), Anal (1.5-3 yrs old), Phallic (3-5 yrs old), Latency (5-12 yrs old), and the Genital Stage (12 yrs and older).  Although I am not completely convinced of his ideas on fixation, I can agree with him that we all have defense mechanisms that we use, even if they are not acknowledged.  For example, one of my defense mechanisms comes into play when I am stressed out: I bake.  In general, I enjoy cooking and baking for pleasure, however when I am stressed or worried about something and trying to avoid and defend myself against these things, I will fins myself drawn to my baking tools like a duck to water.
Another theory of his that I agree with is his argument that "at different stages of a person's development, personality is influenced by three distinct structures of the mind: the id, the ego, and the superego." (pg 30)  This argument is so obvious to me.  People battle these three structures all the time in an attempt to order to strike a compromise. 
Freud's theory is one the most interesting ones that I have studied. I was always interested in the battles that one's id and superego went through on a day to day basis. I do not really agree with all the latent sexual feelings that Freud pushes with this method, I do see strong evidence that the unconscious is important in people's development. I tend to constantly think about some of the defense mechanisms that people have. I go back to one that I have noticed in myself. When dealing with a somber topic, like death for example, I have the tendency to make jokes about whatever situation I am. I suppose it can be that subconsciously, I am afraid of the topic and I want to change it to a less serious one.

Other theorists included Erik Erikson and his theory of psychosocial theory of development, Jean Piaget's stages of cognitive development (which I have covered several times while at Trinity), Lev Vygotsky's sociocultural theory, Ivan Pavlov (and his dog), B.F Skinner and his theories on reinforcement (which I also covered in a previous blog posting), Albert Bandura's Social Cognitive Learning, Uri Brofenbrenner's Ecological Theory as well as the Developmental systems theory and contextual model.  While I believe the developmental contextual model is slightly convoluted (pg 45), I do believe it accurately portrays the exchanged between individuals and the multiple levels of their complex contexts propel development.  

Finally, we look at Maslow's hierarchy of needs.  Again, I have covered this several times while at Trinity, and each time I find it interesting.  For myself, I would place myself near the top of the self-esteem tier.  I am an adult with healthy relationships and with an occupation where children see me as a teachers aide in a classroom  I believe that after a certain age we eventually start to revert back down the hierarchy as we age, thus making different needs a priority.  

Overall, this chapter was kind of a review for me as I have already covered many of these theories.  That being said, these topics are so interesting that there is always something new to discover about them and to see them in a different context.